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How to End a Relationship Stand-Off

18-05-2018

How to End a Relationship Stand-Off by Joseph Grenny Dear Joseph, I work with clients who are in conflict with each other. Their “stories” about the other person make resolution impossible. They’ve been in conflict with each other for so long that they are convinced that their …

What To Say When Your Boss Pulls Rank

30-04-2018

What To Say When Your Boss Pulls Rank By: Joseph Grenny Dear Joseph, How do you have a crucial conversation when someone pulls rank and shuts down dialogue by saying something like, “Because I’m the boss!”? I’m in a situation where I would like to discuss better solutions, but when I…

If At First You Don’t Succeed . . .

25-11-2016

If At First You Don’t Succeed . . . Dear Joseph, I work very closely with someone who I really like and respect. I have one concern about how he tends to rely on me to deal with all criticisms directed at our shared projects. I have tried bringing up the issue and holding the crucial …

How to Deal with Toxic Gossip at Work

23-03-2018

How to Deal with Toxic Gossip at Work By David Maxfield Dear Crucial Skills, One of my main concerns at work is how we talk about each other—the staff lunchroom can be especially toxic. What feels most shocking to me is how our boss is often thrown under the bus. I am having a hard time …

How to Make Crucial Conversations Part of Your Culture

27-02-2018

How to Make Crucial Conversations Part of Your Culture by David Maxfield Dear David, I work for a global manufacturing company. We are in the process of redefining our workplace culture and recognize that one of the key business behaviors we need to develop, at every level, is the ability to …

How to Speak Up For Your Morals and Values

16-02-2018

How to Speak Up For Your Morals and Values by Joseph Grenny Dear Joseph, I work in Information Technology and our company was recently bought. Several members of the parent company came in to bring our network up to their standards. Me, two of my coworkers, and five employees from the new …

Being Micromanaged

08-12-2017

Being Micromanaged By: Joseph Grenny Dear Crucial Skills, My boss has started micromanaging me. She constantly asks me for updates. One morning, by 10 o’clock, I had already received ten e-mail messages from her and it took me an hour and a half just to reply to her requests for updates! To …

No Time for Dialogue

14-11-2017

No Time for Dialogue by Emily Hoffman Dear Crucial Skills, I am a first-line supervisor at a hospital and was fortunate enough to attend a Crucial Conversations training. I enjoyed it thoroughly and got some good tips on dealing with crucial conversations. The problem we run into in the hospital…

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How to Get Respect From the Boss

18-10-2017

How to Get Respect From the Boss by David Maxfield Dear David, My boss and I have weekly one-on-one meetings. During these meetings, he frequently takes phone calls from his family, gets up in the middle of a discussion to use his personal restroom, and allows workers to just barge in to talk to…